To stop being angry or frustrated, find the conflict between your expectations or desires and reality, and change either your expectations or reality. Remember, though, you can only change yourself, not others.
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You can only change yourself
Most of what we think and do have a deeper emotional tie. Changing these emotional ties requires internal changes. If you consider how hard it is to make those changes in yourself, you'll realize how little chance you have in changing others.
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